Staying Broke – Impulse Shopping and Kids

Talk – What keeps us broke and in ? Our ACTIONS. Thanks to Money Monk, I discovered a great post by Broke Girl “10 Tips That Will Make Sure You Stay Broke.” As I read down through the comments – I realized that I’m not the only one that spends without thinking things all the way through.

I did it yesterday when my boys wanted these cars near the checkout (kiss of death for me… anything even remotely close to the checkout line!) and although I said NO first, I quickly shifted to…”Well, they are only 3.98 each. Okay with tax – I dished out $8.50 then reminded the boys to be careful with them because they cost more than 800 pennies.

With wide eyes, they agreed and greedily headed for the car only…. before I could get all the groceries away – one had smashed the other’s car into bits. Okay – lesson learned.

#1) I let the boys talk me into an impulse purchase.

#2) I hoped they would treat the cars with care BUT deep down inside I KNEW that they are not responsible enough to take care of anything for any length of time.

#3) I incidently reinforced that they could nag mom to get her to spend on something that didn’t last a couple hours. NO good life lessons here :-)

Since I’m to be watching every penny – I have now resolved to teach the boys the same thing.

Teaching Children About

They’ve had enough lectures on taking care of things and being careful, that things cost . comes only with . You know the drill :-)

Now, it’s time for them to “” for any purchase that is a WANT and not a NEED. How long will that lesson take? Tam

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